Wednesday, 12 September 2012

The 30th Birthday Countdown…



In exactly 3 months today I turn 30.
Golly, when did this happen? To be honest, I’m not quite sure.
My birthday: the twelfth day of the twelfth month of the twelfth year is fast approaching yet in many ways I still feel like I’m 25…

I'm very excited about this milestone and marking the occasion as I enter a new unexplored decade. Adding to my excitement is a special family member who will be here to celebrate this milestone with me - my mum arrives in Perth during the week of my birthday!
Also, it will be my very first birthday in Australia and in the sunshine. I have spent 29 birthdays in the cold, rain, snow, ice…  all wrapped up in thick layers. Mid December in Perth will be a scorcher!

It seems many of us approaching/turning 30 spend this time reflecting on what we have achieved in our lives throughout our twenties and where we are from many perspectives. For me, I can happily say that I'm healthy, I’ve just started an exciting new job, I have an amazing boyfriend and wonderful and supportive family and friends. And whilst I might not have yet reached some of my pre-30 goals, (notably becoming a home owner and maybe getting married), I have a lot to be grateful for…

Also, I can tick off some accomplishments from my list:
  • Pay off my Student Loan in full - tick
  • Get a promotion/progress in career – tick
  • Travel lots - tick (five continents)
  • Live abroad - two ticks
  • Improve my cooking skills (esp. Turkish) - a work in progress!
  • Slim down to a perfect 10, not quite there yet…

It’s quite ironic because every year, as my family and friends will agree, I tend to go a bit crazy with the lead up to my birthdays and organise events and big birthday nights out months in advance. Now the big one is approaching, I’m more for taking it as it comes and going with the flow. Who would have thought I’d say that? Maybe Australia has had a ‘laid back’ effect on me already after just 6 months.

I’ve decided I'm going to really enjoy the last few months of being a twenty-something girl... I am the first one from my group of close friends to turn 30 and am not sure if I’ll feel any different at all, but I will embrace this time. It's not long before I'll probably be compiling another list of goals for the next decade (I LOVE lists!). How funny will it be if I continue to get ID'ed in the supermarket or at a bar! "There's my drivers license, you see I was born in 1982 which makes me 30 years old but thank you thinking I might look up to 13 years younger than what I actually am!" :-) So many people say that  in  your thirties you become more confident, feel more self-assured and are more self-aware and just feel more comfortable with who you are and what you're good at, so surely there’s a lot to look forward to just there...



D xx

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